🖤 Meet the Goblin-in-Chief

Hey, I’m Caitlin—owner, curator, chaos coordinator, and proud goblin-in-chief of Stims & Smut.

I’m a neurodivergent mom of three, a lifelong lover of smut, and a firm believer that pleasure, stimming, and softness should be sacred—not shameful. I’ve been dreaming of this since high school (yep, even back then I was telling people I wanted to open a sex toy shop), and now it’s real: a weird little corner of the internet where people like me finally feel seen.

This shop? It’s built with intention, ethics, and edge.

I’m not here to play it safe—I’m here to make sure weird, overstimmed, pleasure-hungry folks feel catered to, celebrated, and damn powerful.

Welcome home.

💬 Why I Started Stims & Smut

I grew up in a sex-positive household, which was honestly a gift—but also a spark. I was always curious, always intrigued. But I masked a lot. I tried to be what people expected. Back then, we didn’t have language for neurodivergence. I just knew I didn’t quite fit.

Stims & Smut is my reclamation.

It’s me, unmasked. A place where I don’t shrink or filter myself to make things “palatable.” I get to be weird, soft, loud, horny, overstimmed, sacred—all at once. And I want you to feel that freedom too.

🖤 What I Want You to Feel

I want this brand to feel like your second home.

Not just a shop, but a soft landing. A sensory-safe sanctuary where your needs aren’t just tolerated—they’re celebrated. Where you can stim and rest and explore and scream into a pillow about your latest book boyfriend and not be judged once.

This space was built for you. And I mean that.

👀 What Makes Us Different?

We’ve got stims, smut, and sex toys in one place.

Where else can you buy a dark romance about a morally gray demon and a glittery stim toy shaped like a mushroom and a sensual candle that won’t fry your brain?

We’re:

Neurodivergent-run

Woman-owned

Sex-positive & inclusive

Ethically curated

Sensory-conscious

Goblin-core certified

This isn’t just a store.

It’s a soft rebellion. A stimmy, spicy, safe space for you to just be.